Do I send presents?
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|Fri, 12-12-2003 - 2:30pm|
I am close to cousin #1, and I always send birthday and Christmas presents to her kids.
I haven't seen cousin #2 in a long time except in passing. She avoids all family gatherings. Some family members complain that they never get to see her kids. My kids haven't seen her kids in a few years, and it's been even longer for me.
I always used to send presents to her kids, but it's like sending presents to strangers. I don't know what they like or what they do. I usually have to quiz cousin #2, who is not quick to return my calls.
I just found out that cousins #1 and #2 never exchange presents. So should I just not send presents to cousin #2's kids? I don't know if they would even notice. I can't remember, but I don't think they sent anything to my kids last year.