1 1/2 yrs ago my sister and her family came to visit.
Well, now what is the likelyhood of her accepting if you do extend a personal invitation to her. Through the years you have reached out to her personally, only to be ignored or rejected.
I personally think if you do send her a personal invite, she will find a reason to reject it. Most likely she will say, you should have done that from the get go. Or that your invite was done in a rude manner.
But, if connecting with her is very important to you. Then perhaps you should send the personal invite.
This honestly sounds like a game she is playing.
I agree with Anna.
I'm with the others here on this one...you've done enough & don't need to send her a special invite.
The best revenge (which I'm not assuming the OP wants...but still..), is for
I have learned that silent treatment is intended to pull you in. If you don't react, it doesn't work.
Well she actually wrote back, but first let me tell you what my dad said, I talked to him last night and he said she made a peculiar comment to him, she said about this event.... she is making time for everyone but me...
not true I am working everyday, people are coming to me.