Find friendship hard

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Registered: 01-22-2004
Find friendship hard
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Sat, 11-13-2010 - 1:05am

I don´t have many friends, and I never needed many.

I have worked to befriend a neighbor for almost a year. ( she has many friends). I tried to win her friendship at the beginning, doing her favors and being more a listener than a talker. When she talks, I listen carefully and many times ask for more info about the topic. I´m more a listener than a talker, because I like to learn the way people think, their lives and about almost all possible topic, besides my willingness to open

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Registered: 02-03-2008
Sat, 11-13-2010 - 7:59am

I have to admit that I'm more of a talker, and. I hate it! :smileysad:

"IMAGINE" All The people, Living Life in Peace...................., "You may say I'm a dreamer; But, I'm not he only one." "Be A Dreamer and Imagine."
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Registered: 10-10-2010
Sun, 11-14-2010 - 2:52am

I wouldn't act in a way that was truly not me in order to win a friendship - you want to develop a friendship that you would actually want to live with, not one where you do most of the giving and most of the listening if that's not what

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Registered: 01-22-2004
Sun, 11-21-2010 - 7:03pm

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Registered: 01-22-2004
Sun, 11-21-2010 - 7:10pm

Yes, you´re right.