Friend Is Putting Pressure on Me To Confirm Her Husband Was Having An Affair

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Registered: 06-12-2011
Friend Is Putting Pressure on Me To Confirm Her Husband Was Having An Affair
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Sun, 12-18-2011 - 6:42pm

Last week I posted about my friend who had just found her husband dead and how I could help her. Friday she had the funeral and lots of woman from his job came to pay their respects. One woman in particular was acting over emotional and looked a great deal like my friend used to look before she gained

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Registered: 08-10-2010

I didn't realize you were keeping track.

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Registered: 06-12-2011

Thanks for the imput. I will definitely not put any ideas in her head. In the pass when she suspected any of her boyfriends of cheating, she was right.

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Registered: 10-11-2005

My xfil in law passed away about 5 yrs ago or so {the reason I can't quite remember the date is the xh & I've been divorced now 15 yrs now & I wasn't allowed to attend the furneral} any who, when he passed he was living down in OR & xmil & 1 of my bil's were still living in my hometown. So the family starts to plan his service {xmil & entire family knew he had a "girlfriend" down in OR} well xmil wants just a family service only. Xfil was a union cement finisher & as all 3 of his son's are also union, the boys decided to have another friends service. Would you beleive not 1 but 3 different women showed up at the family only service {the 2 bil's & xh stopped them from coming in, guess the one gal knew about the other 2 but the other 2 didn't know about the others} the one woman who knew about the other gf's, told my bil's & xh that she was legally entitled to 1/2 of fil's estate {both WA & OR are community property states} the bil who is just 5 months older then me, told her that no as their mother was still legally married to their dad, everything was HERS. The main gf did try to get half of the estate. But was told to go rub salt.

~~Sam stitches well with others, runs with scissors in her pocket. Cheerful and stupid.
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Registered: 08-10-2010
okay . . . . . . but not sure what all this has to do with anything. The woman referenced in the initial post was still married to her husband, there is no evidence of an affair, and since the man just died his estate has not been administered.
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Registered: 11-13-2009
Well, she posted to Keepingitreal, so maybe we should wait for Real's opinion on Sam's post, rather than you telling Sam she's irrelevant to this discussion. (I disagree with you on that last part, btw.)

 

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Registered: 08-10-2010

Um . . . . . .Just so we understand each other, I have no problem with you disagreeing with anything or everything I say.

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Registered: 12-02-2008
I have no clue why you continue to post replies like this? You, yourself posted the following:

"Anyway, cl-swimercise recently posted about attacks on this board - the thread is called "A few thoughts" . You might want to take a look at it instead of stewing about me and lobbing jr. high school grenades. "


I WISH YOU'D REMEMBER YOUR OWN ADVICE EVERY NOW & AGAIN!!! If you dont' lke a reply here on the board, you do have the choice to simply ignore it. But time & time again, you get really snippy & stir the pot! And for the life of me, I don't know why. Just saying.
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Registered: 10-11-2005
Well thanks for reply. But my point is it does HAPPEN. Wish well, but I won't be coming to this board again. You weren't helpful or nice at azure195
~~Sam stitches well with others, runs with scissors in her pocket. Cheerful and stupid.
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Registered: 11-13-2009
I'll PM you, ok?

 

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Registered: 11-13-2009
Sure we know why. Just look at Sam's last reply. That's it in a nutshell.