a Friend who Betrayed my trust

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Registered: 08-27-2005
a Friend who Betrayed my trust
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Sun, 11-07-2010 - 1:22am

sometime ago, i wrote on here, on this board about a friend who was dishonest with me, in other words stole my money. let me recap. I invited a friend of mine from work for a weekend some months ago. i was scheduled to travel overseas shortly after that. I had some foreign currency in my dresser drawers. it is customary for me to place money in my drawers from time to time, whether it is local currency or foreign currency. The money is always properly labelled as i keep track of my money, making sure to write the amount on it and in the event i take out any, i make the subtractions.

k2002

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 9:24am

If you are not willing to confront the dishonest friend, you will most likely just have to ride it out.

If your mutual friend is stuck in the middle, she will need to be the one who gets herself out.

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Registered: 11-24-2004
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 11:58am
Of course dishonest girl is going to tell others that she has "no clue" as to why your friendship broke up. She's trying to make you out to be the bad party.

She's trying to break you and the other girl apart as a tactic to keep her reputation afloat. She wants everyone to think you're the crazy on and the theft was all in your imagination. I think she will be shocked into stopping her charade if you confront her directly (one on one without an audience). Tell her "we both know what you did, so stop playing your little game. And everyone else knows too, so any damage control you're trying to do is futile". That will send her into scramble mode and she will become unglued. That will be the beginning of her own undoing.

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Sun, 11-07-2010 - 2:54pm

yep, our mutual friend said to her in a subtle manner that she notices that whenever she(our mutual friend) is talking to me, she (the dishonest friend) wants to talk to her (our mutual friend at the same time. Our mutual friend told her again, that she is not interfering in the dispute as she(our mutual friend) came to the organization and saw that the both of us (me and the dishonest friend) were friends. the dishonest friend and myself joined the organization the same year and became friends and our mutual friend joined the organization 3 years later and became friends with us. so the three of us have been friends ever since.

k2002
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Sun, 11-07-2010 - 3:10pm

you are right. she is trying her luck,. let her continue to push my button and provoke me and she will see what will happen.

k2002
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Sun, 11-07-2010 - 3:43pm

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Sun, 11-07-2010 - 10:16pm

yea man, i note your comments. thanks for listening ladies. I will keep you all updated on any new developments.

k2002
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Registered: 11-24-2004
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:21pm

Yes, that looks suspicious to me. One day, this girl is going to get caught. Maybe you should plant a personal camera, in case she tries to steal something out of your bag. At my old company, there was a clubber, who used recreational drugs like ecstacy. Everyone knew he used these drugs, because he was open about it. He got caught stealing money out of a woman's wallet and got fired.

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Registered: 08-27-2005
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 9:56pm

you know, there has been some stealing going on out of the kitchenette with people stealing other people's food out of the fridge in the kitchenette.

k2002
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Registered: 11-24-2004
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 12:16pm

Yes, that could be her too. I often hear stuff about office candy being completely raided. Especially when people work late and get really hungry. Now, someone stealing someone's lunch is really low.

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Tue, 11-09-2010 - 1:52pm

It is just

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