Friends leave me out, but discuss plans in front of me.
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|Wed, 01-11-2012 - 2:29am|
I have been taking an excercise dance class since June and become friends with a group of about 12 ladies who take this class. The ladies range in age from about 35 to 49. We have gone out to dinner/dancing/for drinks several times since I joined the class and I have had a lot of fun. BUT, sometimes they do things that don't include me .The "problem" I sort of have with this is that they talk about these plans that I am excluded from IN FRONT OF ME. I understand I may not be included in everything, and I can accept that, but why do they talk about this right in front of me? Sometimes, it's the whole group that does stuff I am not included in, other times it's just some of the ladies who do things together. I realize that sometimes in a group, some of the ladies will have their own "sub group" that does not included everyone. I don't have a problem with this. What I do think is somewhat rude is to NOT include me and then talk about these plans right in front of me, or later talk about how much fun the activity was that I was not invited to. (Again, this seems like total "high school" behavior, and these ladies are past H.S, so I don't get it.)
I will give you examples. After our Halloween class, I was talking to my group of friends and they were