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|Fri, 10-03-2003 - 11:43am|
Well, eventually she told her husband (my stepdad) everything (because things didn't work out w/the guys she was seeing) and they worked things out. Then she started going back to school and met this girl in one of her classes whom I met last week. She's 24, her husband just went to prison for being part of this gang, my mom drives her here and there because this girl has no car, and she does those online and phone dating things and she's hooked my mom up w/3 guys already! What is wrong w/her. I think this girl is a bad influence on my mom.
Another strange thing is that we haven't talked in days. She ususally calls me everyday, if not than every other day. She usually talks my ear off for at least 1/2 an hour. Sometimes its a chore to get her off the phone w/me, hehe. Well, she called me last Friday just to ask me something and that was it. Then I didn't hear from her until Tuesday and that was only because I missed an appointment and the dental office called her house instead of mine so she called to see what was up w/me. I was really sick and I told her that and then that was it. We talked probably 2 minutes. Now its Friday and I've been really sick all week and she hasn't even called to see how I'm feeling. I mean, even my boyfriend's parents called. It makes me so sad. I would just call her myself but I wanted to wait it out and see if she called me.
And to top it off, my sister told me that mom wanted the $900 I owed her. I freaked! My mom has helped me out in situations where I needed money and didn't have it, but those 2 situations were a year ago...and it wasn't even $900 she lent me either (more like $600). She hadn't said a thing about it until now. My sis told me Mom wanted it because her daugher (my half sis) needs like over $2000 in dental work done and insurance only pays for $1000. But my little sis has her own account with as far as I know enough money in it to pay for the dental work. So why all of a sudden would she want this money back? I don't understand it. I know she knows that I don't have that kind of money to just pay her back. And my sister said that mom had been trying to get a hold of me but coudn't - like I wasn't answering the phone. But I was home all day Tuesday and Wednesday and I know she didn't try to call me. I have caller ID so I know for sure. Why would she lie to my sis like that? Making her have to tell me about it. Is she afraid to confront me? I really don't get it? This all sounds so strange.
Oh, and last Monday I went over to my mom's for this Partylite Party she hosted and she said maybe 3 sentences to me the whole time I was there. She mostly talked to her friend from school. I don't even know why my mom hangs out w/her. What should I do? I explained this to my boyfriend and he thinks she might be bi-polar. Or on drugs. She's just changed so much...and she comes up w/these outrageous ideas. One minute she wants everyone to move to Florida w/her and live on the beach and the next she wishes she could just pack up leave everything behind. She never knows what she wants. Do you guys think I'm just being overly worried...or is there really something wrong? It just seems like mothers shouldn't act like this. Getting her children involved in her affairs...asking to pay her back out of the blue...whats going on here. What should I do? HELP!!!!