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Registered: 02-24-2013
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Sun, 02-24-2013 - 12:33pm
Made a mistake 14 months ago in my marriage. It's a mutual friend of my best friend. My best friend knew about it, it was 1 time. Months later she started a full on affair with this man. He manipulates her to the point she tried to end it 4x. She finally did... Now she accuses me of sleeping with him.i am not ... I don't know why she feels I am. She called me and I sobbed because after all the pain he caused her including separation in her family why on earth would I do that? I'm hurt and angry as hell. To have lack of care or judgement of my character. My text message from her said not to try to come back in her life and hope he was worth it. I am distraught and flabbergasted ....
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Registered: 01-22-2004
In reply to: Hoping4Hope
Thu, 03-28-2013 - 12:01am

Sorry but your message is not very clear. Your mistake means you were unfaithful? Was this with the same man your friend got involved later?MMMMMMMMMMMMM.

Three are too many in a relationship.Seems got a big mess, end of the afair and end of the friendship.

Sorry

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Registered: 08-18-2004
In reply to: Hoping4Hope
Sun, 02-24-2013 - 1:34pm
Maybe he told her you were sleeping with him, in an attempt to isolate her from your friendship. Were you advising her to leave him? If so, she might have told him that. And he might just be psycho. And her, too. Hard to know with the info given. Sorry she's got you so upset. Probably a friend you need to let go.