HELP!! IL problem im devastated!
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|Mon, 09-29-2003 - 7:01pm|
i posted here a while ago about my horrible SIL and i got some great advice!! I hope someone will be able to help me this time too!
For all that dont know the story i try to make it short
Me and SIL are 2 totally different people, well never get along! it seems like that shes jealous that im 'taking her brother away' and trys to be mean and ditch me in every possible situation (in this sugar-sweet nice way i bet you know what im talking about)
DH doesnt see it that way and we had many fights over it
SIL is pregnant but has 6 possible guys who could be the father so she wants DH as a "daddy" for her kid
We finally moved to another state and everything seemed to get better
Untill a few weeks ago...His parents and his sister are over here alot since they will be moving here too next year
Since a few weeks DH seems strangly obssesed with SIL pregnancy...he mentions it at every opportunity he gets, even tells it to strangers, at home he cant talk about anything else...its drving me insane
It goes so far that he stops whatever hes doing (or whatever we do!!) jsut to talk to her when she calls!!!
I know he wants a baby (i had a misscarriage earlier that year and he was devastated) and so do i....but strangely our baby plans are put on hold ( DH " i dont wanna have a baby now, its 'SIL' s turn") and hes only talking about her and 'the baby'
I dont know waht to do anymore, i tried talking it seems to help for a little while but then it goes back to where it was
Hes having a very rough time at his job lately and alot of other things in his life arent great either so i dont really wanna talk to him about all this right now
Plus i wanna get some advice first and see what you guys think!
Im really devastated and sometimes i think the only way to get him back to his old self is to get pregnant myself ( i dont even dare to ask him if he wants to try to have a baby now) I know this is the wrong way to do it but i just dont know any other way out