how do i un-invite friend to bday party?

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how do i un-invite friend to bday party?
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Sun, 08-21-2011 - 8:47pm

i wrote about this friend before http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/All-in-the-Family/Is-she-out-of-line-or-am-i-overreacting/m-p/117957539#M29925

turns out she isn't leaving town and is here for another year.

she's my friend but is driving me mad still.

tonite we were talking and

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Registered: 08-10-2010
Tue, 08-23-2011 - 8:44am
curly_girly1982 wrote:

of my life isnt going to work as we have mutual friends and i do like her but 40% of her pisses me off.

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Tue, 08-23-2011 - 12:36pm

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Tue, 08-23-2011 - 1:30pm
The insult isn't warranted. Clarification was.

In the future, it might be a good idea not to mention parties you're attending, especially those for you, in front of someone who's not invited.

This girl doesn't sound like a good friend. Why not be upfront and let the pieces fall where they may?

Aren't you the poster from Italy a couple of years ago? With friend problems? I hear it's rampant when you're in a different country than where you grew up. And I wouldn't blame you one bit for dumping this new friend. She doesn't sound like she has alot to offer you, and is stressing you too much.

40% annoyance? Too much for me. I've never thought of it in terms of percentages before, but since I am now... I think I'd go with 90/10. The lowest I'd go is 80/100.

 

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Tue, 08-23-2011 - 4:12pm
curly_girly1982 wrote:

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Tue, 08-23-2011 - 6:22pm

"In the future, it might be a good idea not to mention parties you're attending, especially those for you, in front of someone who's not invited."

I agree.

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Tue, 08-23-2011 - 7:01pm

Thank you for clearing up misunderstandings I had.

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Tue, 08-23-2011 - 8:37pm


In the future, it might be a good idea not to mention parties you're attending, especially those for you, in front of someone who's not invited. / I agree.

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Registered: 11-13-2009
Tue, 08-23-2011 - 10:09pm
Alright, now I see why you told her about the party. And you're right, who thinks someone so new in your life is going to insist on going out of the country with you?

And yeah, we don't get many posters out of the country, much less Italy! So that's why I thought it might be you.

Have you decided what to do yet?

 

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Tue, 08-23-2011 - 10:35pm

Sue lei. Avvocato avrà 33 1 / 3% contingnecy. Tenere 60% ​​di tale danno e il restante 40% in beneficenza

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Wed, 08-24-2011 - 8:13pm

i guess if she brings it up im just gonna say that we'll go alone this time but she should join me when i

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