How soon is too soon?
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|Sun, 04-20-2003 - 3:40pm|
Well MIL started dating again in October. Actually since he passed away she has been a party animal. Its not like they didnt go out and do things together but i only knew the man for 4 years and I am grieving still yet she is searching for a new man.
I admit they could have had problems that DH and I dont know about and I also admit that everyone grieves differently but I feel ... i dont know a bit betrayed that she is moving on so quickly. DH feels as long as she isnt clinging to us what is the problem. Also i never had a relationship with my own dad who was a total jerk so i guess that is part of the reason i miss FIL so much. Anyway do i ask her to slow down? I have a hard time being around her now she is a social butterfly and dating.