hurt a friends feelings re weight
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|Mon, 09-17-2012 - 1:32pm|
I'm 35 & really put my foot in my mouth the other day. A younger mutual GF was telling us both how she's lost 15lbs in the last few months & can now fit a size 4-5. We were joking about how we could almost wear the same sizes, as I'm a size 6.
I I realized my +size friend might be a bit uncomfortable with the direction of the conversation & tried to lighten things up for her by saying "you must really be wishing we'd shut up". she said no. without thinking, i said "you must be jealous". I just didn't think & it slipped out, I would never hurt her intentionally & now feel v bad as she's quite hurt. Any way I can fix this? I already sent her an apology via text letting her know I'd never hurt her on purpose, but think she's too mad to reply. Her natural reaction is to run when she's mad at the earliert chance & that's what she did...then she holds a grudge for awhile. Any info would be really appreciated, i know what i said was dumb & wish I could take it back!