I think my friend spiked my drink
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|Wed, 04-10-2013 - 8:24pm|
I'll try and keep it short and am very grateful for any help. I was friends with this guy for a couple of years, saw him every few months as I did not live where he did. He started getting more and more clingy and weird- very jealous about other people I spent time with. I made it very clear to him that I didn't want a relationship and he said he understood that. There are a number of things he did which made me feel very uneasy so I started seeing/interacting with him less. The last time I saw him I had a couple of drinks- he bought the last one. Within about ten minutes I started to feel dizzy- I said I needed to go (which I did as I had to catch a train)...he made lots of references for me to stay with him, that he wouldn't "try anything" but I insisted that I had to go. As I walked to the station I started to feel more and more weird, couldn't hold my head up, legs felt like concrete and it was a real battle just to walk to the train. Once in my seat I couldn't keep my head up and it dropped, hitting the table in front of me and I blacked out. There was a loud noise some time later and I woke up and was instantly sick. I tried to walk to the toilet but kept swaying from side to side. When I eventually got to the toilet door I tried several times to grab the handle and kept missing. In the end I fell to the floor and fell asleep again (but it felt like blacking out not drifting off)...someone woke me some time later as I was on the floor..they asked if I was ok and I couldn't speak, couldn't get my words out and just put my head back down. I was sick a few times while all this went on. When the train got me home about 3.5 hours later I felt relatively normal as I got into my lift's car. I still felt weird but not at all dizzy or feeling particularly sick. When I got home I realised that I had wet myself. I have never ever reacted like this in my life...and I'm in my late 20s, I'm familiar with my limits and in this case I did not have enough to drink to feel drunk let alone like this. I didn't know what to do for a while as I didn't know what to think. Do you think my drink was spiked and if so, with what? I couldn't prove that I had been spiked or that this guy even did it but I found him quite creepy and uncomfortable to be around- I changed number immediately just to avoid a conversation with him- if I accused him and he didn't do it, then what? Even if he did, I was sure he wouldn't admit it...so I just avoided speaking to him. I thought this had worked as I didn't hear from him in any way for 4 months...but just now he has found a way to contact me online and has sent me a message now saying he has tried to to text and phone me but the number won't work and how am I? I don't know what to do as when I was in touch with him before, he was very creepy, finding things out about me and my friends/family and subtly letting me know that he knew things...even saying once that he knew where my mother lived and might visit sometime?! Really odd as I was not that close with him...I feel very uneasy and don't know how to respond. I feel like he might go to greater lengths to get in touch with me and find it weird that he has waited this long to say he can't get through- he was very obsessive before and angry if I didn't reply right away. Any advise would be much appreciated- I felt so relived when I changed my number as he had been creeping me out for so long that I didn't know how I'd ever get rid of him, I thought I had.