Inappropriate gift post got me thinking

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Inappropriate gift post got me thinking
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Wed, 01-05-2011 - 12:23am

As most of you know, my marriage is not good at all so maybe I'm misunderstanding something.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2004
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 12:57am

I get the feeling that he has been doing some "what if" daydreaming, but wanted to keep it all hush-hush.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 9:11pm
It is odd that after all the attention, now he's avoiding you. I don't know what to think about that.

I'd be peeved at the lady who spread your personal stuff. Wonder who else she told...

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2008
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 9:51pm

Maybe the man found somebody else since July so now he's avoiding you. Or he could want some extracurricular activity on the DL. I don't know what the policy at work is

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Registered: 11-24-2004
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 11:34pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Thu, 01-06-2011 - 12:24am

I think maybe he's avoiding me now b/c he realizes that I am very iffy about my marriage and that if he continues down this path, he's just going to get hurt.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Thu, 01-06-2011 - 12:34am

I know of at least one woman at work that he was interested in a while back.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Thu, 01-06-2011 - 12:42am

There is no work policy at all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-22-2004
Sun, 01-09-2011 - 1:16pm

How much do you know about him? Is he married or single? Does it bother you that he sends you that kind of messages?

I think that someone told him that you feel inapropiate his gift post, so he has quited.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2004
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 12:11pm

I am confused. First he was there w/ you and now he isn't BUT he is offering for you to stay w/ him and telling you that he holds love for you?