Issues w/ brother's girlfriend...help!
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|Wed, 07-30-2003 - 5:52pm|
Well, 1 1/2 months ago, all three of us went back to WA together to visit my family and when I was there, I met up w/ my best friend and for some reason, my brother's girlfriend got mad and blew up at me, saying that I have no respect for her and that I had treated her like a stranger the whole time that I was in WA...I tried to explain to her that I never get to spend time w/ my best friend and I did invite her to go everywhere we went, but she never wanted to hang out w/ us, she only wanted to hang out w/ my brother. So when we got back to CA, she stirred up a bunch of stuff (over what? I am not sure) and started to say mean things to me, about how I have no respect for her, that she has done everything for me and I don't appreciate it and all this other stuff...the main thing that hurt was that she told me to move out, but in harsher words. I was not an angel in this situation either, but I had to defend myself too because the way she was talking to me was not in a respectful manner. I thought things were cleared up and that all this fighting was a misunderstanding of things and of course, we aren't friends anymore, but we were on a civil level because she is my brother's girlfriend and we do live with each other....
After this happened, oddly, my car gets egged about 3 weeks ago and then the other day, my car gets scratched...so my brother tells her about it and then she gets all mad, saying that I am accusing her of doing those things, well, she meant to email her friend, but accidentally sent it to me and of course, she is talking about me behind my back, saying that I am making things up so that people would feel sorry for me. What upsets me the most is that she is putting words in people's mouths, for example, she is bringing my mother into this, saying that I told my mother, when in fact, I never spoke to my mother about it, so how would she know anyway? Right? I guess I need some help on what to do here. I am tired of fighting w/ her and she is picking on me. I don't want to move back to WA because of one person and I can't afford to live on my own...what should I do and how should I handle a person like that?