Just need to vent!
Find a Conversation
|Tue, 04-12-2011 - 11:58am|
And be told I'm making too much of this situation. And that I need to grow up but that it's ok to be hurt.
Past history, family occasions have always been big events in our family and ones that all of us looked forward too. However, life changes & I get that, I guess. My DD told me that she has to work all Easter weekend from 2 to 10 each day which means no family Easter dinner will fit into her schedule. I understand & can live with that. So said I would do it the weekend before or the weekend after if she wanted. She said sounds great. Then I found out that this weekend is the best for the rest of the family & again when I mentioned it to her, she said sounds good. I will just confirm with my fiance. Well, you can guess where this is going. All of a sudden it's too much effort to come north where the event is planned for Sat night. Everyone had wanted the meal up at our new home which is 90 mins north of the city. Now DD says move dinner back to the city and make it for Sun night since she will be coming then anyhow as we babysat on Mon/Tues while she works from 6 am to 2 pm. When I said that won't work for her brother's fiancee as she is working, DD asks if she needs to be there. I was so angry that I replied, saying well then does your fiance need to be there? Which she didn't like at all. fyi, she really likes her brother's fiancee.