Lying about having sex to my mother

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2007
Lying about having sex to my mother
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Mon, 08-15-2011 - 1:04pm


Hello everyone,

I am not sure if I am posting in the correct

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2008
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 3:05pm

1) The truth WILL come out....it always does!!!!!

2) You could stop taking trips with current BF, but that doesn't change the fact that you've ALREADY lied to your mom....its a moot point if you stop taking trips wtih them NOW!!! The 'deed' is already done, so to speak!!!

3) You could keep lying but its only going to make the truth harder to hear for your mom when she does finally find out..... and she will find out!!!!


My suggestion is to come clean with your mother.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2004
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 3:54pm

Yes, your mother is going to find out and I'm sure

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 3:59pm

Hi,

While I do understand all about the traditional Catholic upbringing, you're

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2002
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 4:38pm

Your Mother has already said she doesn't want to know.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2007
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 5:00pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-05-2007
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 5:07pm

Just curious, do you actually think your mean and attacking posts are helpful to the posters on this site?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2008
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 5:30pm
OK....I missed the part where you said, you've tried to talk to her but she doens't listen & doesn't want to know!!!

If she doesn't want to know....then what's the issue here? She's already told you not to discuss it with her, end of story!!! If she wants to put her head in the sand & not have an honest discussion with you....then so be it!!! You tried, she's not willing to listen to you....you've done all that you can do. This is her deal now!!!


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2004
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 5:42pm

To OP:

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2007
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 5:42pm
That is what I figured too, but she also has this habit of catching me off guard and just asking me flat out "Have you had sex?" out of no where....and I just freeze.

So then I think, well does she want me to tell her, or doesn't she?? It is very confusing :/
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Mon, 08-15-2011 - 5:47pm

Hi,

You are entitled to your own views at at age, and at age 23 you are certainly entitled to make your own decisions about relationships, sex, etc. I don't think it implies anything about your feelings towards your mother.

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