My dad does not want to be helped or cured
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|Tue, 12-31-2013 - 11:57am|
Im loosing my patience already trying to help my dad to recover well for his medical treatment that he was under like 2 months ago. I dont know what is going on with him, he simply does not seem to be well. At the family we are doing anything in our power to help him but he does not cooperate either. He rather spend his timne sleeping all day . He simply seems does n ot want to be helped and fight for his recovery. It is all in his mind. He says stlll it hurts but the docotor alreayd told him in his face that he needs to cooperate, but he is not doing it., He is the worse patient any doctor can have,
I decided not to help anymore he is not helping us either. I let ther relatves to take the burden to try to convince him to cooperate, but Im fed up, as harsh as it sounds it is. Im tired alreayd to try to do my best and all the family always everyday had given him words of encourgament but we do not know if he listen to us or pay attention or simply he does nto care. He does speak but a lttle and all he says is it hurts and we have told him we know but htat is part of the recovery if he follows doctors order into swallow and drink, like th docotro told him to do, the sooner he will recover but he seems not to care.
I ask for work vacations to be at the house to help my dad and also other relatives do help, but my time had been wasted, I see him in the same mood state like he was 3 weeks ago.
At home we do not knopw what to do anymore with him.