If it was a healthy relationship where both of you were contributing to the friendship, then, yes, by all means...you owe it to her to be there!!! BUT, this hardly sounds like a healthy friendship to me... so I don't really think that you owe her anything.
She sounds like she does things like this for attention!!! She likes the buzz & the questions & being the center of attention.
I think by "being there" for her...you're only feeding into her need for attention!!!
I did a quick search and saw some posts from women who claim to have undergone a tubal ligation, then became pregnant down the road so I guess it's possible. That aside, it sounds as if you have tried to be a good friend to this woman, even giving her a second chance. Your focus right now is on your own family, and their needs. I don't see how anyone could fault you for that...
"She realized she'd been unfriended and I told her I was sorry, but that her posts were making me feel really judgmental towards her and I didn't want to be like that.
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If it was a healthy relationship where both of you were contributing to the friendship, then, yes, by all means...you owe it to her to be there!!! BUT, this hardly sounds like a healthy friendship to me... so I don't really think that you owe her anything.
She sounds like she does things like this for attention!!! She likes the buzz & the questions & being the center of attention.
I think by "being there" for her...you're only feeding into her need for attention!!!
Hi,
First of all, I think that (like a lot of people) you attach too much importance to Facebook.
A friend should uplift you and support you.
"She realized she'd been unfriended and I told her I was sorry, but that her posts were making me feel really judgmental towards her and I didn't want to be like that.
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Thanks a lot everyone....I really appreciate your comments and realize my thoughts and feelings about the subject were right on target.
>>It's sad because everyone thinks the reason she's got to have an abortion this Saturday is that it's not her husband's<<<
She has GOT TO have an abortion?
Cat...The OP stated
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