Need advice about my sister

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Registered: 04-18-2007
Need advice about my sister
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Tue, 11-02-2010 - 7:26pm

I have never really cared for my sister, we have always been cordial and gotten along but she bugs the hell out of me below the surface.

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 7:34pm

To be honest, you probably shouldn't have posted that (naming names or not is irrelevant here), and if you want

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 10:13pm

I would keep my mouth shut!

Here is why.

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Registered: 04-18-2007
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 11:26am
Our Parks and Rec director insisted that my nephew and son be on the same team - my DH tried to have them on separate teams because he KNEW this would happen, as did I.

I actually had/have her blocked on FB simply because I didn't want to be FB friends with her at all, even before this happened. After I deleted and blocked all mutual friends that we had, as well as family.

Thanks for the advice. So far I have acted like nothing happened and refuse to talk about it if other people bring up what she has said. I just tell them that I'm not getting into it, no reason to feed the small town gossip fire.

Thanks for the advice, I needed some outside views, I appreciate it.
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Registered: 02-03-2008
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 11:36am

You are doing the right (grown-up) thing. I feel bad for your husband and for you for having to deal with all this crapola.

It takes a real women to turn the other cheek and not fan the flames.

You're sister is not as mature as you. Hopefully, someday.... Hugs, LuAnn

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 11:39am

It is probably time for your DH to let the P&R Director know just how much conflict having his nephew on his team is causing.

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Registered: 11-24-2004
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 1:35pm

You can send an email to clear the air, but I

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