Now all of a sudden my biological family want to be in my life...

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Registered: 05-11-2010
Now all of a sudden my biological family want to be in my life...
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Sun, 11-20-2011 - 2:35pm

I've always maintained some type of contact with my biological aunt, but we've never been close.

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Registered: 05-11-2010

Thank you, I've always tried to be reasonable and rational in my choices.

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Registered: 05-11-2010

Thank you, I'm actually letting the silence speak for me, because my bio-aunt didn't even take into account my feelings or thoughts on this first and instead just did as she pleased.

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Registered: 05-11-2010

I've been pretty irritated that she'd just assume that it's okay to give out my phone number to my bio-mom without asking me.

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Registered: 04-19-2004

I think you have a good head on yoru shoulders and have already answered your own questions!

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Registered: 02-14-2004

My son-IL was adopted as a toddler...born to an egg donor who put him and his sisters in an orphanage whenever she got a new boyfriend who didn't want children...her relationships never lasted long, so they were in and out of an orphanage multiple times.

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Registered: 02-23-2010

It's best to be honest with them.