only 1 life: i am not going to MIL's!

only 1 life: i am not going to MIL's! i like her v. much. but i'm super busy & my DH is working 15 hrs a day each day for last 2 yrs. i'm not flying across the world to see MIL for Xmas. she will come vacation at our home in sunny so. cal. in jan.

i think i'm a rebel starting a new life tradition for many of my friends also. just do what you can & move on!