Is Our Friendship Over?
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|Sun, 10-05-2003 - 3:42am|
so to make her feel better, we had a party for her at our apartment (my BF and i live together), lots of ppl came, it was lots of fun. in addition, for a few weeks we had planned on ordering a wrestling payperview (that we usually all watch together every month) the following sunday. so a week passes, it's last saturday, the day before we made plans for sunday nite. i call Marie to find out what time she's gonna come over, etc. she never calls back. then sunday afternoon i get an IM from a mutual friend, his name is Jon, asking if we can call him so he knows what's going on. so my BF calls him, and Jon tells him that Marie has gotten back together with the EX and so she might not be coming to our shindig.
well, don't you think it would be appropriate if Marie were to call me herself and let me know why she's not coming, especially after when she really needed me i was there for her? okay, there's another thing wrong with this picture. Jon is really Marie's friend, we just kinda know him through her. he doesn't call us regularly, he doesn't have our numbers, so shouldn't Marie be the one telling us all this? so i'm thinking, well Marie wouldn't just diss me for this guy, at least not without calling first. well, she never calls.
she calls monday nite and leaves a msg claiming that she left her cell phone at her house so she wasn't able to call me to let me know. she claims to have told Jon to tell us she wasn't coming. okay...if Jon doesn't have our numbers, how is he supposed to do that? and if she's really a friend, shouldn't she be the one calling? and why is she dissing us for this jerk when she just broke up with him, and i was there for her, but all of a sudden he comes running back so that's good reason?!
i dunno, i'm very upset and still very hurt, even tho this happened a week ago. i dunno if i should call her or how i should react but i'm really hurt; how could she not call; that cell phone story sounds like complete BS. if we were counting on her she should have found some way to let me know what was going on, not calling the day after.
i dunno....i'm just confused and i dunno if i should talk to her or how i should approach her or if i should even be friends with her. that's what's been on my mind lately. i dunno what to do.