Is this really a Best Friend?
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|Mon, 07-25-2011 - 5:51pm|
Last Friday and Saturday night's my friend Johnathan and I tried calling our friend Aracelys so we can do our 3-way chat because she told us to call her at midnight we did just that and she did not answer. So Sunday night arrives and she calls me and she sounds like her typical self, all sad and depressed about her issues and problems.
Me, I've dealt with hearing about these issues and problems over and over again so I don't care about them anymore. Now before you call me a bad friend or a bitch, hear me out. The reason I don't care is because this friend who considers me her best friend is not a best friend not by a long shot.
Whenever I have a problem and call her she never answers her phone I always got to leave a voicemail and even then she doesn't listen to it. Then when I call her and invite her to go out she says "No we got to stay in this city only - I don't want to go there it's too far" when she has a car and it's not more than 10 minutes away 20 tops! I have even offered to give her gas money and she says no.
To me a best friend is someone who answers your calls and listen's to your problems and gives you advice and is always there for you. Just like my new best friend, whenever I have a problem she's there to listen and her and I have a great friendship. Like her and I love this one clothing line and whenever one of us find's an item the other wants we pick it up and ship it to one another and pay each other etc. Now thats a reliable friend!
Now back to my other friend Aracely's, she hardly has money or the money she does get she uses towards pigging out at a fast food restruant or uses on herself when she could use it on gas to come over and hang out because she's always complaining how she's bored and doesn't hang out.
I offer to hang out and she refuses or as I said wants to stick in one spot and only there even if I tell her let's talk down the street to this store she says eh let's stay here. So back to Sunday's conversation, Johnathan calls and she does and we all talk and Aracely's is all depressed and sad and I tell her go and tell Johnathan your problems go on you know you want too.
She says oh I'm just dealing with my problems and some issues and tells Johnathan "don't you think that if you have a friend or "best friend" that they should be there to listen and give you adivce etc" I end up telling her off right then and there,And she ends up saying to Johnathan "can you call me 1 on 1 so I can tell you whats going on?"
Then the two hang out and Johanthan calls me back at 1AM. And tells me what happened and he says that Aracely says I was immature and needs to grow up and go back to school and I was a brat and not much of a friend etc. I'm not a friend? Please look how she treats me, she's not the friend not me.