Sad news, right before New Year's!

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Sad news, right before New Year's!
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Mon, 01-02-2012 - 12:50pm

After being upset about how my parents acted toward when I told them I was pg.....then, they came around & was happy for me.....DF & I found out, we lost the baby.

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Mon, 01-09-2012 - 1:47pm

Do keep whatever you have. It isn't much but it's all you have and it really does help to have something. What little I have is in a little toll painted box that I keep on a top shelf in my closet.

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Mon, 01-09-2012 - 12:55pm

Thank you soooo much for your story....it helps me heal!!

Yes, it's so hard, right now to even 'think' about trying again.....I was soooo happy with THIS ONE & WANTED this one!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Mon, 01-09-2012 - 11:44am

I am soooo sorry for your loss.

I have been in your shoes, pg in my 40s, insensitive mom, and I lost the baby. It is so so hard.

I

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Sat, 01-07-2012 - 1:13pm

Thank you!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Sat, 01-07-2012 - 1:51am

I'm soooooo sorry about your lost! I really hope your dad came around and realized how crude he was towards you in your time of need. I wish you and your family the best in life.

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Thu, 01-05-2012 - 11:41pm

Yes, Dee, just give her some time, she'll come around.....I, too, just didn't want to talk to my mom or anyone else, for a couple days, after the shock & horror of finding out & telling family & friends & crying all day, that 1st day.....I was emotionally drained, so the 2nd & 3rd day, I wanted to be angry & be by myself, & just spend time with my dd!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Thu, 01-05-2012 - 10:43pm
Thanks so much Kiki, Cat & Sadie for your kind support. I am trying to get through each day but my heart is breaking for my dd & our loss. It was so hard to put away the presents I had brought for the baby. It really is a death in the family.

Kiki, my prayers & thoughts are with you during this terrible time. I hope you take the time you need to heal physically and emotionally. It will get better with time. I had a miscarriage 30 yrs ago. You don't forget but you do accept. I'm glad you will try again. I'm not sure my DD will. It took her 4 1/2 yrs to decide to try again after her son was born 10 wks early & almost died. She goes to be checked out tomorrow morning. She is hoping that there won't be a need for a d&c but she is tired, very sore & extremely emotional but just wants to be alone. So I'm respecting that & am just waiting for her calls or texts. Meanwhile, I have dgs with me so he keeps me from thinking too much.

Dee
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Thu, 01-05-2012 - 2:27pm

Dee.....I AM SOOOOOOOO SORRY!!!!!! :smileysad:

Yes, cat, I am here & I really appreciate all the love & warm wishes sent my way!!!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Thu, 01-05-2012 - 2:14am

Hugs Dee.

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Wed, 01-04-2012 - 9:45pm
Oh Dee, I'm so sorry to hear this.

I hope Cowgirl is still hanging around and reading our condolences, as well.

Dee, I'll be thinking of you and your family tonight, and sending my best thoughts and prayers, lady...

Again, I'm so sorry for what ya'll are going through. Lean on us for support. We'll be here...

 

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