Seeing Red - Narcisisstic, Pathological Liar Sister At It Again

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Seeing Red - Narcisisstic, Pathological Liar Sister At It Again
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Tue, 11-02-2010 - 10:06am

Only these lies are absolute slander and a part of me wants to sue.

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Registered: 07-29-2002

As hard as it maybe.

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Registered: 02-03-2008

Good God Para, You just described my sister to a T and to boot she gave my niece away so she could keep on her path of destruction. Mother of the year? NOT! Poster child for birth control and sterilization? YES! She makes me sick!

I feel like you do but,

"IMAGINE" All The people, Living Life in Peace...................., "You may say I'm a dreamer; But, I'm not he only one." "Be A Dreamer and Imagine."
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Registered: 10-14-2003
Thanks Anna. I know that's the only logical solution. By giving her no air time, she loses control. And you're right, responding would be feeding into her. It's just so mindboggling. I never thought I said that I hate her, but I'm close. Real close. I'm feeling really beaten up and want her to stop.
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Registered: 11-13-2009
I feel your pain, and anger.

My father, mother and sister have told lies about me this summer to CPS. It sickens me. All on behalf of my sister. After all that R and I had done to help them the past two years, my parents turned around and showed their true colors again.

They'll regret that one day, cause all they have left is a drug addict/prostitute in their home, and a drug addict in prison.

I just disregard it, and have decided to let the chips fall where they may. At my nephew's expense, but that's the way it's got to be.

 

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Registered: 11-13-2009
I'm hoping all our sisters get their karma one day. Right now, it's just the opposite for my sister.

 

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Ugh, just revolting, Lu. It gets to a point where you aren't so much mad anymore, but disgusted. My sister has had the karma bus run over her so many times. And this time, she's back on "Speaking" terms with the same family she and my mother gave me the ultimatum about speak to myself! You know, if it were only allowed, once, I would love to haul off and backhand her right across the face.
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Registered: 10-14-2003
I think just purging it on here has helped my anger immensely. I was thinking of you when I was typing it out because I know what you've had to endure regarding evil siblings. I don't know what to say about your family lying about you to CPS. I don't even know why they'd want a child near an addict, but it's obvious that the cycle is continuing. :(
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Registered: 11-24-2004

I'm thinking most of the people she told these lies to, wouldn't believe her anyway. Friends and family already know what she's all about. As far as the other people are concerned, you could feel them out and see if they've heard any of these lies. If they have, you can straighten out the issues one by one.

As far as blasting her on Facebook, you could end up looking like the guilty party, so I would advise against it.

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Registered: 10-14-2003

I agree.

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Registered: 11-24-2004

Yup she sounds like a narcissist to me. I think more people see through these things than we think. Even people who don't know her well might find her stories incredible. If someone does believe her word, one way or another, you'll find out, even if they don't say anything. Then you can sort this out with that person on a one to one basis.

My mum was a big Jackie O fan. She would tell me that the media would spread rumors like mad - especially when John was carrying on with Ms. Monroe. Jackie would keep mum and it seemed to work for her. My mum remembers the general consensus of "is she or isn't she?"

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