Is she serious?

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Is she serious?
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Wed, 03-09-2011 - 6:40pm

I have an old friend from high school who thanks to facebook we reconnected and found

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Thu, 03-10-2011 - 3:33pm

You are more than welcome paradigmshifter

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Registered: 03-06-2011
Thu, 03-10-2011 - 5:06pm

Sorry about your dad. Losing your dad is bad enough without having a psycho - biotch stalking you. Did you un friend her yet? Are your settings "private"? So she can't read your wall? If you set your page to private, only friends can read your wall. After you set your page to private, make sure you don't friend anyone you don't know. They could be her with a fake profile.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Fri, 03-11-2011 - 6:14pm

Thank you so much shadowsfall for your advice..i unfriended her a couple of days ago and ignored her friend request so that she cant send me another one...my privacy settings on facebook are pretty high so she cant see my pics or have any access to my wall....and i never add anyone unless im a 100% sure that i know them...i didnt get another call/voicemail

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Registered: 03-06-2011
Fri, 03-11-2011 - 6:55pm

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Registered: 11-13-2009
Fri, 03-11-2011 - 10:02pm

 

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Fri, 03-11-2011 - 11:34pm

Trust your gut...

this person is way to intense. She is a married woman with children. She can accept it or change her life ot be the ways she wants.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Sat, 03-12-2011 - 9:59am

Thanks alot shadowsfall, cat.alley and imotherothers...

shadowsfall,she doesnt have my email address, doesnt know where i live but she only has my cellphone number...and so far no more calls so ignoring her worked and

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Registered: 02-14-2004
Thu, 03-17-2011 - 12:50pm

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your father.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Fri, 03-18-2011 - 5:41pm

sillysadie, thank you very much for your reply...i knew my mother for 12 years and my father for 31 years and both losses are very difficult to deal with...i remember the happy times with both of them and seek comfort in them and feel grateful that i can still remember...but the emptiness of not having my father around to talk to daily is an extremely difficult

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Fri, 03-18-2011 - 5:50pm

Hey sumgirl, I lost my Dad at 11 and my Mom at 27.