Should DH pay for bro college fees after he failed 3 yrs?
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|Sun, 05-15-2011 - 9:46am|
It's wonderful to know that you are here for support. Ok. I hope not to be LONG. I am 31 Dh 38, no children yet i had 2 miscarriages in the past 6 mths. I met my DH 5 years ago, married for 2. I was single with my own small business & was living in an apartment at my mom house. I had bad experience with my fam since i was in a long distance relationship and was helped out financially. They would always ask for something which i would give. My DH had the same experience with his dad who never took care of him. His mom went to another country 8 years ago. Presently i am not employed, my DH is. We are still living in my moms apartment since she is not in this country, we are hoping to get our own home next year. This thing is my DH younger brother got a scholarship and failed 3 yrs in a row and was sent back to this country. Now his he is going to university here and my DH mom expects my husbands to pay his fees. My DH studied and it was very hard he took a loan. His mom was there for him while growing up but it was still hard. i have never seen her and i started asking my DH to communicate with her more since she is his mom. I aam very skeptical since her brother told me she is very greedy and always want. firts she used to send small gifts for me and since i stop telling her my business she would send little stuff on DH birthday and not a sweetie for me. i talk to her like once a month and i stopped for a while. For the past 4 years she has been calling and telling us about different friends of hers who have places to rent telling us we should rent a place. My DH is does not say much but he deos not like it. I am making alot of sacrifices here since this apartment is small. Now his brother is calling him and bugging him for $$ & we do not have much. I was in an accident and i took my saving to buy another car so my husband will be less stressed. So after being here for five years at my mom apartment making sacrifices. I have alot of things that i need and am doing without for now. Should i allow my DH to pay for his bro fees for 4 years?