SIL=Bridezillia

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Registered: 03-26-2003
SIL=Bridezillia
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Mon, 05-12-2003 - 1:53pm
I know go on the bride channel but it has to do with family also



































Ok so today is my 2nd wedding anniversary with DH, yesterday we were at his family's house and MIL/SIL were going over wedding plans as I was watching SIL 2 yr old daughter we had a blast playing with each other. My SIL was venting about her fiance I guess the guy like most guys is not helping my SIL plan for this wedding. She is getting married on June 21st 2003. This Sunday we are going to help her put hersey kissess in tiny flower pots and help her fold programs, I am dragging DH to help us out too!! SIL got mad at me for I recently got my hair cut and colored as an anniversary gift from my sister she took me to a saloon and it looks great after SIL got mad at me - I told her don't worry we will work something for my hair and she calmed down and then she got mad at the other bridemaid's that cut her hair and is having a baby she is due in Aug 2003 and didn't want long hair during the summer and I reminded SIL althogh she was only 3-4 months preggers during her pregnancy I remember her cutting her hair for she was hot and uncomfortable SIL just shrugged her shoulders at me and then she is mad at me for not having pierced ears I never was into jewerly and the only thing I do wear is my wedding ring so I told her I will wear clip-ons but she is getting frustrated for nothing is matching and nothing is going her way. LOL!!! I guess I never been in a wedding before where hair/make-up/wearing jewerley was such a BIG issue no offense to those if it was. Then SIL is jealous for my DH is such a sweet guy that he did get involved with the planning towards the end for he saw how stressful I was ( I was also a senior in college and finishing up so I can have a job!!) she wishes she can have the same support from her guy and I guess her guy blew off 2 holidays with the family which pissed FIL off its a sin to not be there for a holiday when it comes to his home especially if you are going to be a part of the family you better be there!! So wish me luck all for I guess his family is poor and SIL told her guy that his side has the pay 1/3 of the bill for the rehersal and well if they don't all hell will break loose trust me!!

Thanks for letting me vent- Drinks on me =)

Michelle

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Tue, 05-13-2003 - 11:46am
No problem that is what we are here for. I feel for you it sounds like you are really dealing with an out of control SIL. SOunds like she is on her last nerves wanting everyhing to go right with no flaws. I will send you some I will not let her drive me nuts vibes LOL. Hang in there and we are here for ya!! Doesn't it feel good to just vent and get it all out without offending the source of the vent :) Until then~~Michelle
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Thu, 05-15-2003 - 10:33am
What the hell?/LOL,she is mad you cut your hair.Okaaaayy....lets put our life on hold because SIL is getting married.I think she is damn lucky you guys are gonna be in her wedding...~cherrysnaps~ www.yourwebsister.com