Sister in Law Princess - Part 2.

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Sister in Law Princess - Part 2.
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Thu, 04-14-2011 - 1:06am

I have posted here before re: brother and sister in law.

To cut a long story short - I was

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 9:09am

"IF" he does call, I would tell him straight out that you made a genuine attempt to be respectful towards them both and show that you do indeed care and want a relationship with them.

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Thu, 04-14-2011 - 6:12pm

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Thu, 04-14-2011 - 8:56pm
I'm with IMotherOthers on this!!! This is NOT your problem. This is your SIL's issue. You met & tried to talk to them. OVER A YEAR AGO!!! What more does she want?? Honestly!! She's being ridiculous!! I think you've done all you should!! She needs to get a hobby or a job or something to do with her time other than this petty nonsense!!!


I also agree wiht your friend!! IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE!!! The more attention the sqeaky wheel gets, the more it squeaks!!! KWIM??


Good luck!!!


My sil is a bit of a princess too...but for other reasons...in other posts!!! feel your pain. Vent here anytime!!
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Fri, 04-15-2011 - 7:55pm

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Fri, 04-15-2011 - 8:34pm

You know you could beat him to the punch.

Send him an email,

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Sat, 04-16-2011 - 1:02am

I really like the response you gave but the tone of it all actually makes it sound that I care still.

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Registered: 11-13-2009
Sat, 04-16-2011 - 3:20am
I bet she already picks on him. And that's how this situation has evolved like it has....

 

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Registered: 02-04-2010
Sun, 04-17-2011 - 12:40am

I have no doubt that this is entirely whats led to the downfall of our relationship. SIL gets what SIL wants and because we were so close, she didnt want us to continue that relationship ... I probably posed a threat somehow ...

Looking into the future with my own sons, I do hope that my future daughter in laws will be mature and empathetic and not spoiled ... there are no guarantees but I will aim to ensure that we can be supportive and caring towards each other :) .

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Sun, 04-17-2011 - 8:32am

Sultan, wash your hands of them.

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Registered: 02-04-2010
Sun, 04-17-2011 - 11:29pm

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