Sister's Actions - Let's call a Spade a Spade!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 07-29-2011
Sister's Actions - Let's call a Spade a Spade!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Wed, 08-03-2011 - 12:21pm

My sister, brother and I live in separate parts of the country.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2011

Absolutely I have every right to monitor what she's doing financially.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2011

I too have always felt that I was lucky enough to be surrounded by caring and loving people.

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Registered: 11-13-2009
<< Right now, if that makes her happy to give them money, so be it. But, if I see it getting out of hand, I will be saying something to all concerned. >>

Ok, I'll just say this once and let it go.

It appears to already be out of hand. I also come from a moneyed family, and I'm saying that $36,000 a month is out of hand, short of some real serious life or death health problem or something.

To be honest, I'm having a hard time believing that you don't see that amount of money, possibly even monthly, as a problem when you get zero.

Something doesn't add up.

 

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Registered: 02-14-2004

I'm glad to hear your mother has all her faculties so she's making the decision to send them money with her mental abilities intact.

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