So sick

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Registered: 07-29-2008
So sick
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Sun, 02-24-2013 - 8:25pm

and tired of people disrespecting me and being so ignorant and when you call them on it, you're the one with the problem!!!  I am so tired of it. I'm done! It isn't even worth trying to establish relationships because people cannot even have a conversation anymore without turning it into an arguement. I'm so done with certain people in my life.

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Registered: 01-13-2010
In reply to: gd13rd
Tue, 03-05-2013 - 7:54am

Good for you!  People can be disrespected for just so long.  It's best to take a break and send a message to that person (or people) that you WILL not be disrespected.  All those people do is continue to hurt you and use you or whatever.  Dr. Phil's new word for them is "baiters". 

I had to cut ties with my DD25 until she "grows up" because she was blatantly hurtful and disrespectful to me for too long.  It was hard as she is my only one of my 4 DDs who lives by me, but it had to be done.  I HAD to send a message to her that unless she started treating me with the respect and decency I deserve that we were done.  I do miss her, but my life is much more peaceful now.  I just pray she grows up quickly and we can have some kind of relationship again one day. 

I know what you mean about those people turning it around to saying YOU'RE the one with the problem!  My DD25 told me I was f-uped in the head and bi-polar!  lol Nice way to talk to your mother, huh??