ugh - the wedding pictures...long story

This is something that has been bugging me ever since my DH and I got our wedding proofs back. We got married 3 years ago and when planning the event decided we really loved the photo journalist approached with the pictures - so, we spoke with our photographer (a friend) and decided we'd have a few posed pictures but the rest would be in the candid style, black and white/sepia (NOTHING out of the ordinary with wedding photos these days). Now, we got the usual posed picture - bride/groom with parents, with siblings, with bridal party, with in-laws etc..and when we got the proofs back, we loved every single shot - they we're exactly what we wanted. So, we get the proofs and we go over to my parents to show them - my brother, SIL and father all looked through - like them, etc and then my mother started looking through them and as she was flipping through the pages she starts getting this really angry look on her face and puts the proofs down. About a half hour later, she picks the proof books up again and starts going through again and out of no where slams the book shut, starts saying how these "F**king pictures are horrible" that we wasted our money, that our photographer didn't know what the hell he was doing, etc...Both my DH and I where SPEECHLESS I mean we where so shocked. I asked why are you so upset and she goes on to say how she's in none of the photos - OK, now we have great shots of her helping me get ready and then the posed shots - I mean, let's face it - my Dad got more picture time as he walked me down the asile, daughter/father dance, etc. In my brothers album obviously there are going to be more of her cause she's the mother of the groom - but she went off and threw the proof albums on the ground. My DH and I picked up our things and left without saying anything, we were really hurt that she would say that about our wedding photos - just the fact that they were about OUR wedding day and we had such an awesome time and they held such great memories when we looked at them. Anyway, that was 3 years ago and now, the photos I started off loving everytime I looked at cause me such freaking stress I can't even look at them. I've yet to get my album done , I haven't sent photos to any one in the wedding party or to in-laws...it's like she poisoned these photos for me (poisoned...LOL I'm sorry to be so dramatic) But I just can't get myself to even open the book to go through them and I'm really resentful to her because of that - due to her reaction everytime I open the proofs to try and go through them I don't see that awesome day my DH and I got married - I see her going insane and throwing the proofs around saying what crap they were. So, I guess what I'm looking for from everyone is simular experiences with wedding photos and how you stopped resenting the parent who ruined them. (Side Note: My DH's parents loved the photos - they said they reflected our style to the T and also said they totally showed what a great time we had and how wonderful everything looked - my MIL said this in front of my mother about 2 weeks after her blow up AND my in-laws were in the same number of photos as my family. Also, neither set of parents made any demands as to what "had" to be done at the wedding - they let us plan everything our way with no problems - very stress free) Anyway, thanks for reading and any tibits of dealing with this would be great.