unhealthy relationship with sister

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-11-2011
unhealthy relationship with sister
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Sat, 06-11-2011 - 9:09am

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Thank you for the help. I appreciate it. : )

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2002
Sat, 06-11-2011 - 10:02am

As you have mentioned, your sister is a non-compromising individual from the get go.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2002
Sun, 06-12-2011 - 7:13am

Hi..I used to be the one who always had to bend over backwards to keep the peace...so I can relate a bit. (now I just do what I want, it is what it is)

Here's the things...your sister is already married. She made the decision to elope. Wish her well, send a gift...and don't give the party another thought. It's just a party. Tell her you'll be there in spirit.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-11-2011
Sun, 06-12-2011 - 7:48am

Thank you both for the replies. I feel much better about it.

I think her guilt trip threw me for a loop. I haven't been around people like her for a while now. So I was stunned.

Typing it out and reading it back to myself helped too.

Thanks again for the support and good advice. : )