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Registered: 02-23-2010
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Fri, 12-30-2011 - 12:15am
I posted after Christmas about my dysfunctional family. I have deleted both my brother and sister from my Facebook account. My sister send me a message on Facebook asking and I quote, "What's your problem?". I decided to call her and she actually was in tears because I deleted her. I explained to her that I wanted more privacy and she said that was BS. I stood by my story and it only made her more angry. She is such an ugly angry human being and kept telling me I was the one with the problem.

I'm going to lose her as my helper and I'm going to have to find an alternative. I still can't be open and honest with her because I would never see her children. She would love me to disengage from her kids so I have to be extra careful.

San

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010
In reply to: swimercise
Fri, 12-30-2011 - 1:20am

Sorry for what you're going thru.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-11-2005
In reply to: swimercise
Fri, 12-30-2011 - 4:23am

~~Sam stitches well with others, runs with scissors in her pocket. Cheerful and stupid.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
In reply to: swimercise
Fri, 12-30-2011 - 8:45am
I want to clarify that I've already had surgery (depending on my back there may be more in the future) sorry for that confusion.

She's so unstable so I don't really know why she's reacting this way. She even agreed that Facebook wasn't important. She said I'm the only one not getting along with Mom, brother and her so it must be me...this isn't even close to the truth. I'm just fighting back. I don't want to live like this...my health can't handle it.

San
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
In reply to: swimercise
Fri, 12-30-2011 - 8:46am
And it's truly sad that I have to succumb to their dysfunction so I can get help when I need it. I don't know who else I can ask for help.

San
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010
In reply to: swimercise
Fri, 12-30-2011 - 10:12am

Okay, now I understand that you’ve already had the surgery. You say you don't

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
In reply to: swimercise
Fri, 12-30-2011 - 11:17am
<< She even agreed that Facebook wasn't important. >>

It's important to both of you. That's why you did what you did, and why she was in tears when you called her.

I'd be careful calling her unstable in this situation. Probably others you're right about, but you claim FB isn't important and you purposefully slammed someone on it, which led to tears and phone calls, and more drama.

I can't reconcile your opinions about fb and your actions.


 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
In reply to: swimercise
Fri, 12-30-2011 - 11:05pm
I didn't slam anyone on FB...I deleted her.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
In reply to: swimercise
Fri, 12-30-2011 - 11:55pm
My bad.

Still, seems FB is more important to both of you than you acknowledge.

Too much unnecessary drama, imo.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
In reply to: swimercise
Sat, 12-31-2011 - 12:58am
I'm confused....isn't that what I'm fighting with my family? Isn't it obvious there is unnecessary drama? Trust me none of this is about FB.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
In reply to: swimercise
Sat, 12-31-2011 - 1:08am
Never mind.

Hope you are able to get it worked out.

 

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