I don't know if I should say ANYTHING or just keep my mouth shut.
No, I would not say anything.
you said you havent seen her is a few years...you have no idea what she weighs...its not your place to say anything anyway. If she cant she will know. Dont be concerned about other people's weight....worry about yourself. You know its been a touchy subject with YOU...WHY would you inflict this on her????
Oops....I saw her in August.
OOOH!! okay..now it makes sense :)
Doesn't change my answer.
Great way to explaine it.
I'm going to weigh in on this one. I am 47yo and overweight. I have been all my life. My mother comments constantly about my weight. She has been on me all my life about it, sent me to Weight Watchers at 16. She would pay for it if I lost weight, I had to pay if I didn't. Ended up even if I lost the weight I was paying for it. She says she is concerned about my health, which I am too, but what I am hearing is that I am not good enough the way I am. I have accepted that I am heavy. My Dad's side of the family is the same way. I spent a weekend with her not long ago because my sister was gone for the weekend and we didn't want my Mom being alone due to health issues. She criticized what