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|Tue, 05-06-2003 - 11:59pm|
Or your MIL talking to your husbands EX?
As I've wrote previously, my husband and I have been together almost 4 years (Married just over two of them) His mother still talks to one of his ex girlfriends with whom he has a 6 year old daughter with.(They separated a year before I met him) Now, if it were harmless conversation I "might"(But can't swear to it) understand. Here inlies the problem - his mother tells her personal information about us!! How wrong is that? I can't tack down in my brain specifics, but I do remember it being info she should have kept to herself. Even worse...his ex tells MIL lies about husband and I.(Mostly me) Just all kinds of goofy garb. MIL totally sides with her no matter what she has done, even when she's undeniably in the wrong. My husbands ex has this way of making MIL feel sorry for her (BOOOWHOO) and it's like it's all our (Husband and I) fault that her life sucks. My husband has told his mother that we have no problem with his EX bringing his daughter over to see MIL and such, but the over-socializing needs to stop. So MIL just hides it better. I feel totally betrayed by MIL, I won't lie. It hurts and totally ticks me off at the same time. I think she needs to choose between the family she has and the family she "wishes" she had. Thoughts?