My neice has 2 teen-aged daughters now 18 and 20.
Has anyone ever heard of CONTRACEPTIVES!?
It is an easy thing to say, but A LOT of work.
I still don't think it is fair that everyone in her family (and now even people on the board), is putting pressure and trying to guilt the OP into "being a bigger person" and becoming involved.
Thanks for your replies.
The hand-made cards was a good idea.