Whose family to spend the Holidays with?!

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Registered: 01-23-2008
Whose family to spend the Holidays with?!
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Mon, 11-22-2010 - 3:13pm

Ok, so my fiance's family has a family tradition of going to the mountains to pick out their Christmas tree every Thanksgiving morning, then they head back to my mother-in-laws families to eat a

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Mon, 11-22-2010 - 4:54pm

I admit, I would be hurt too.

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Mon, 11-22-2010 - 5:17pm

Well, My, my, isn't he full of himself? Talk about self centered, this is absurd if he

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Registered: 10-25-2002
Mon, 11-22-2010 - 6:23pm

Wow. That would seriously make me think twice about the kind of person he is and if I'd REALLY want to get married to him. I'd firmly express your view again and how important it is to you/grandmother. Regardless though, I'd still go to grandmother's even if he came along or not. Let us know what happens.

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Registered: 11-24-2004
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 12:50pm

I agree with the others. I would go to your grandmother's with or without him. And in the future, if you want to spend a holiday with your family, then you should. It seems like he gets his way all the time.

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Registered: 10-25-2002
Fri, 11-26-2010 - 1:38pm

Just wondering what happened yesterday. Hope you are doing ok.