am I wrong to feel this way?
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|Fri, 02-01-2013 - 7:31pm|
I was friends with this girl for about a year. I never liked her as much as my other friends (we had a mutual friend). One day I just had to end my friendship with her. First her background may explain her actions: she's 39, still lives with her mom because her parents divorced when she was a baby. Her mom retired a few months ago and moved to a community living place with a club house and pool, tennis etc. as my friend says (I think it's an over 55 retirement place but she says no). This 39 yr old girl went with her mom to live in this place and now commutes 2 hrs each way to work (4 hours!!)!!!! She's a virgin but has been with guys (I think she's done oral, but nothing more, I forget). She also loves music, rock and heavy metal, but she is very religious and plays the drums in her church band. Over the summer she went to her annual church picnic or whatever. One time I told her that I hated my acne from PMS and I always seem to break out when I have a date and that I wish I could get laser for the ugly hair on my face. She started on this whole thing "God loves you and we are all beautiful." This comng from a person who loves heavy metal? LOL. Sorry if this sounds judgmental.
When I first met her, it was at a concert and after the show my friend and I waited for the band to come out for autographs. She was nice to talk to although she made sexual jokes. I dont even remember what they were. Then she was saying how sexy the singer was on stage and how she'd want to be with him. Ok, fine, I said that stuff like that, but when I hit puberty in 1987 over Jon Bon Jovi. I was 12 yrs old not 39!!! I am 37 and yes, the singer is hot, but I don't tell my friends that I have sex dreams and explain what I want to do with him. Really? Do any of you guys know women in their late 30's to say things like this? I don't! I mean I may have day dreamed about doing sexual things with my boyfriend once in a while but only because we did it before. How can she say she's a virgin at 39? Maybe she's immature like this because she's a virgin?
Now it comes to the point where I had to end our friendship. Number one, I added her to my Facebook and almost everyday she'd post pictures of things relating to farts. I admit, I love those blunt cards but I like the ones with sarcasm, not fart jokes. She's just insane. Our mutual friend posted that it was her dad's birthday and she commented to "give him a big, juicy kiss for me." My friend was like "Ewww, no!" Then another one of our mutual friends likes to share pics of quotes. One showed a guy and a girl sitting on a couch and the girl was crying but she had leaned over in the guy's lap to cry. The saying was something like "I'll always be here for you" or "You can always lean on me." So the 39 yr old had to comment about how that was a good position to start oral sex. She ruined the moment of that beautiful quote!
What a crazy woman! We are no longer friends. Am I being a prude or over reacting? I also think she should have moved out on her own years ago even if it meant her mom would be alone. How else can her mom meet a new husband and have dates if her daughter is living with her, and vice versa, as far as I know, my ex friend never had a boyfriend for the whole year I knew her. Am I being mean for thinking that this women is a little immature and has a dirty mouth?
Thanks for your time.