Dealing with mutual friends
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|Sat, 12-15-2012 - 11:20pm|
Here's my brief story. Recently lost my best friend as they ended the friendship. There was a lot of misunderstanding and hurt feelings we were both to blame but they took the major offense. I've tried reconciling but they aren't having any of it. It's been nearly a year of not speaking. I've learned to move on and past it, but admittedly some days are harder than others. We have a mutual friend, lives across country but recently came to visit. We had to plan separate events, which was odd but we made it through. However, the mutual friend and I haven't spoken since. Mainly occasional likes and comments on Facebook posts. She knows details of the friend split, that I'm sure I don't even know, but lately has been changing her profile pics to photos of the two of them and writing things about how wonderful the ex-friend is. I'm not against their friendship (they were friends first) but can't help feel she's doing a bit of this on purpose. It's bordering on obsessive (I think) but it's also starting to annoy me. I have said and done nothing about this and will continue to do so but thoughts welcome. It almost feels as though she is asserting herself as if to say - haha we're still friends and you're not!
I should also point out - we are all in our 40s so certainly old enough to know better!!!