Had to tell friend things she says and does creep me out
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|Fri, 08-30-2013 - 12:22pm|
Ok There is Mary. She is the sister to a good friend. Mary asks me to be her friend on Facebook. Ok I do. I feel bad for Mary. She's been through a lot growing up. Stuff done to her by her now deceased brother. That part I won't mentiion nothing about. Mary is 32 going on 33. June 2012 the mother passed on from ovarian cancer. From that time on Mary has taken it pretty bad her mother is gone. She is a basket case still a year later. Talks nonesense out of her behind how she misses mom. Bring my momma back. She will go on and on this and that is her mothers favorite church songs, foods and so forth. She blubbers to everyone about mom. Sometimes it's very annoying. She has even put a couple notes by a religious statue in church. Someone I know well and knows Mary well found it. Said the note said please resurrect my mother now.
She was told by others she should be in grief counseling. That she needs to learn to move on in life. That yes mom is gone now. But remember the good times you had together. I know Mary has mental issues not only related to her mothers passing. Which is why I allowed her to my friend on Facebook. I figured I'd try to be a support person to her. She'd talk goofiness. Stuff I can't mention here. That I told her politely is not ok to talk about. She posted on Facebook some guy she friended who speaks to the dead. The guy said he had messages from her mother for her. I wrote how that is creepy talking to the dead. That it is opening up the door to the dark side. Well I am Catholic. Mary too was raised Catholic and still goes to church weekly. I politely explained to her that we don't believe in witches, psychics, mediums and all that. How she just opened the door to letting demons in. That sort of stuff bothers me big time. She got mad. Says I'll talk to a psychic if I want. Then her guy friend who calls himself Spirt Whisperer Cornelia Marie. He posts all angry. That I should not judge his abilities as a psychic. Yells at Mary for telling me about messages he gives her. I said Mary did not tell me contents of messages nor do I want to know of the contents. She and he called me some swear names. Then she unfriends and blocks me. No big deal. I did what I could to help her through some rough times mentally. If she does something stupid. Then she is on her own to deal with the consequences. I've known Mary since she was a baby. I talk to my friend about Mary. She was not aware what was going on. I said look on her Facebook page. She has all this bad stuff she and this guy called me. I said I'm worried about Mary's mental well being. There is no one to call on her that will really listen. To make sure she is ok. She lives in a rented room. In a building just for women. I almost wanted to contact the housing she lives in. Ask them to check up on her. If they notice anything bad. That maybe they can call someone on a psychiatric level with the county. Mary is supposedly part of a county program that is suppose to be helping her with some of her issues. But it seems they are not doing a good job at that. It won't be long before something big and bad happens to her. She'll end up locked up in the county psychiatric hospital. That is not a place I wish anyone to be sent to. As that place is not very good at caring for the mental people. Maybe another psychiatric hospital is better. But based on her insurance and what the county gives her in help. She might not have a choice where they put her. When something bad happens.