My neighbor friend again :(
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|Thu, 12-13-2012 - 11:10pm|
I have posted some things about a neighbor friend I have. I don´t feel comfortable with her anymore and would like some input about this. I was having problem with my daughter because of an extension card I gave her. I needed to vent, and as I sometimes listen her issues, I thought it might be my turn.. She gave me some support but she also started to scold me and talk to me loudly as if I were her kid. She was telling me how she solve a problem with her credic card , but I was trying her to understand that this was a different situation. She loudly told me "WHAT IS IT, THAT IS NOT CLEAR FOR YOU".
I wasn´t feeling well because of my problem with my daughter and the least thing I needed it to be scolded like a missbehaved kid. I didn´t say a word but distanced from her. She talked to me and I said that I didn´t like the way she treated me, and she said she didn´t mean to harm me. ( that might be ok for her, or that´s her way of helping).
I have also seen in her mad looks at me for a stament like "I´m taking some probiotics for my stomach, because stress makes me sick". I´m not working now, so she might think that what kind of stress could I have, but not having a job can stress one, because you have less control of your life.
I know she has a lot of finantial issues and she might be depressed. But I also have a lot of issues, and I have had many friends and even though none of them were prefect, no one has talked to me like that.
She says I´m too sensitive. WHY IS IT SO HARD TO RELATE? :(
Any thoughts or ideas?