DD's stepmother is pregnant
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|Fri, 05-02-2014 - 8:46pm|
I have a 14 year old DD with my ex. She has been going to school in the state where her dad lives for the last seven years. Initially she went to live with him because I was having severe health issues and at the time I was single. She was going to a really good school so we decided to keep her there. This fall she is starting high school, and decided to move in with me and her stepfather for the upcoming school year and start high school here. She currently has no other siblings.
So her dad and stepmother have been married about 7 years I guess. Her dad has not worked for over two years now. Her stepmother works very part time. They are both in school full time as film majors. SM graduates in the spring, and her dad has a couple more years to go. They are living off of student loans, some family support, and public assistance. Now I find out her SM is pregnant and due this fall. They cannot afford to support DD as it is so I have no idea what they are thinking. I have no problems with people using public assistance when it's genuinely needed, but I feel like her dad and SM just do whatever the hell they want and don't even care how it impacts DD. His child support payment is already going to be a pittance, and now I won't be shocked at all if they can't even afford that since SM's baby will be born around the same time, as well as her student loans coming due.
My DH has stage four kidney disease as well as other expensive and complicated health issues, (never stopped us from paying child support though as we both work our asses off) so it honestly really sucks that we can't count on any help from her dad. Yet, he feels it perfectly appropriate to try to make demands on our living situation when she is here. But that's a whole other story. I guess I just need to vent.