Wasn't this rude? What do I do?

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Registered: 10-18-2008
Wasn't this rude? What do I do?
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Sat, 07-12-2014 - 12:00pm

I mailed a good friend of mine for some information and she snapped at me saying it was the least of her concerns because she's busy. I think this is abrasive without reason and I don't want to talk to her for some time. If I tell her I'm upset, she'll tell me to grow up and be a big girl.

I don't think this is enough to lose a friendship over but am wondering what will be a good interval to resume talking to her. I have a feeling she won't bother to reach out if I go silent and that bothers me. It makes me wonder if I am in the wrong by wanting to be silent for a while. 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2005
Mon, 08-11-2014 - 6:55pm
If you are going to get your head ripped off then why talk to her? I don't see how its wrong by you not wanting to get abused. She is in the wrong not you. Don't be a doormat. You have the right to go on with life and not being ripped nine new ones.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2005
Mon, 08-11-2014 - 6:55pm
If you are going to get your head ripped off then why talk to her? I don't see how its wrong by you not wanting to get abused. She is in the wrong not you. Don't be a doormat. You have the right to go on with life and not being ripped nine new ones.