Am I doomed?
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|Tue, 11-02-2010 - 10:08am|
My wife and I live very stressful lives. As for myself, I have lived in denial as to the need for anti-depressants for too long and recently went back on them. While it dropped my sex drive temporarily, the help of testosterone replacement therapy has brought it right back up.
The pills have also made me look at things differently and the conclusion I have is that our marriage is in alot of trouble. We never really communicated and when it came to sex I was initiating 99.5% of the time. My wife told me recently she just doesn't think about sex anymore. She says she still loves me very much but when it comes to sex she just isn't where she can bring herself to initiate. When I initiate she does get into it so that's a good thing I guess. The fact that she never comes to me and takes me by the hand to go, bothers me.
If sex is the glue of the relationship, I feel like I'm doomed. I want spur of the moment. I want some excitement. Is Ashley Madison in my future?