Can this friendship withstand a wedding?
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|Wed, 02-23-2011 - 10:10am|
I have a friend who is getting married in July. She has asked me to be a bridesmaid and I gladly accepted but now I'm wondering what I've gotten myself into.
We spent 6 hours Friday night shopping for bridesmaid dresses (even more tortorous than it sounds because I don't enjoy shopping to begin with!). Fortunately we found one that we all like, fits us well and works for the young junior bridesmaid. Although the bride also likes the style (it's the one she'd initially picked out from the catalog), now she is getting completely indecisive about color. It was going to be blue with a yellow dress for the maid of honor. Now she's considering black, pink, purple. I think the number of choices are simply overwhelming her.
They also shopped for several hours on Saturday afternoon but I begged off because I had other plans.
I would almost prefer that she were the traditional bridezilla and wanted everything a certain way. It's much more frustrating for me to listen to someone waffle on every single decision!
I just needed to vent. I'm sure the fact that I've been married so long has made it difficult for me to remember the stress and details of wedding planning. LOL