Ebbs and flows...in the flow!

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Ebbs and flows...in the flow!
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Tue, 04-03-2012 - 9:56pm

Lately I've been getting the warm and fuzzies evey time I think of my DH or we have a quiet romantic moment. It kind of amazes me that I can still feel this way after 8 years. We had a rough weekend when we went on our road trip. DS2 has a hip fracture and I'm trying to limit the baby tylenol. Plus, DS1 didn't want to do the zoo or anything - just wanted to stay in the hotel the whole time bc he loved it there, LOL. All the whining and resistance made DH grumpy and I got po'd at him bc I didn't need ANOTHER whiny kid on my hands - I needed a partner :) We didn't fight or argue about it - it more of a reminder type thing. And he was able to turn things around the last 2 days which were great!!

I know this feeling won't last...but I know it will come around again...it's almost like being a teenage with a crush, heehee.

Dee

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Wed, 04-04-2012 - 8:13am

I know what you mean -- I still feel the same way about my DH, too.

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Wed, 04-04-2012 - 9:54am

It's good to be mindful of when things feel extra-good so you can bank those memories and look back on them when times are tough.

DH and I are approaching our 16th anniversary and I have the same wonderment sometimes...how can we have been together so long and still make each other crack up laughing? ;)

RoseAnn

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Wed, 04-04-2012 - 12:18pm

Aww sorry about ds ::sigh::
Great to hear how you feel & treasure it
Nice when you can thode feelings .. enjoy :)




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Wed, 04-04-2012 - 9:16pm
That is exactly what I am doing - "banking" it.

Plus, DH doesn't know it but he is in for a FANTASTIC weekend! I'm letting him sleep in every day while I take care of the kids. His normal workday is 12 hours but do to overtime, he's been working 14 hour days and definitely deserves it.

Dee