Equal love?

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Equal love?
Sun, 10-30-2011 - 7:29pm

Does your love ebb and flow in your r/ships?

If it does, then are there times when one of you is more in love than the other?

My DH's love doesn't ebb and flow. He's just this intense constant. I love him - but deeply sometimes and not so deeply others. Sometimes

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Sun, 10-30-2011 - 8:34pm

Dh and I are still very much in love after 7 1/2 yrs together but we have our days. It's not a constant I love you!!! all mushy and gushy but we both feel the same about our love for each other. I never feel like I don't love him as much as he loves me but that's only because I know just how deeply his love for me runs. I love him more than anything in the world and could never see myself without him. We have our times when we don't agree or are angry at each other but it doesn't change our love for one another.

There is nothing wrong with not feeling as strongly about someone as they do you. In all honesty, there really isn't any way you can really tell what someone feels. As long as he's happy with who you are then be happy with yourself. I wouldn't make something a big deal that obviously isn't. If he doesn't bring attention to it then just let it be.

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Mon, 10-31-2011 - 1:12pm

The amount of love I feel for DH

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Mon, 10-31-2011 - 5:40pm
My love for my husband never changes,
I love him the same every day & even more over the years.
That being said there are days I may not be happy with him about something
But that does not change my love for him in any way.
Will be interesting to see/hear what others have to say :)

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Registered: 04-08-2008
Tue, 11-01-2011 - 1:11am
No, I am not making a deal of it. I was just curious to see what other's think and how it works in their marriage.

Thanks for the sharing :)

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Tue, 11-01-2011 - 1:23am

I can definitely relate to the kids thing WAYYYY more than DH. Halloween is very stressful at this age and I'm on my own every year.

DH does leave

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Wed, 11-02-2011 - 9:19pm

Perfectly said, RoseAnne.

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Registered: 09-25-2009
Sun, 11-06-2011 - 8:35pm

I agree with RoseAnn.

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