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Mon, 08-13-2012 - 10:29pm
My name is Cheyenne, DH is Dexter. We will have been married 5 months on the 24th. We have two adorable children, Carsyn Ryder(7-6-11) and Jaimee Leona (7-3-12). With the two small children things have been super stressful lately. To top it off our landlord turned out to be a scumbag and never told us or the other tenant next door the property was being foreclosed on and all of us were forced out quickly so we ended up having to move all four of us into my mothers house! >_< I was a stay at home mom until today. It just seems like we have been fighting so much more now and some of the fights have gotten pretty rough. DH and I were best friends for the past six years. He has cerebral Palsy and we are also dealing with the challenges that come with that on top of everything else. Being younger and being a mom and a wife I am a bit of an outcast to other people around me my age so I'm hoping to try and find some network to talk to to make friends and help me talk through my feeling get advice! Thank you ladies!!
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In reply to: cheyfri
Mon, 08-13-2012 - 11:19pm
Welcome Cheyane,
Must have been awful having to move so suddenly like that ::sigh::
How long do you think you will stay with your Mom ?
What kind of job/work are you doing now? Full or part time?
We're delighted you're here with us & look forward to getting to know you better :smileyhappy:




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Mon, 08-13-2012 - 11:39pm
Thank you! Hoping a month or two minimum. Looking into buying our own house so we don't have to do that again! I work part time at a variety store that is owned by a few guys who own a restaurant franchise(dangelo) in Maine that I worked at since I was 15. I am only doing tiny shifts because I am pumping for my little one. Pretty much just to get me out of the house a bit and earn a few extra bucks.
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Mon, 08-13-2012 - 11:50pm
A couple of quiet months would be nice, LOL
Hope that happens too <g>
Buying your own home would be wonderful! Wish you best of luck with that too & hope it happens soon for you all.
Nice you are able to work as you are a bit like that.
Oh yes getting out of the house is a must :smileyhappy:




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In reply to: cheyfri
Mon, 08-13-2012 - 11:57pm
I was a stay at home mom for the past year and havig no one to talk to beside a little one does get to you, as much fun as they can be =D
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Mon, 08-13-2012 - 11:59pm
Oh yes I understand that,
Will be fun for you to get out & talk to *adults* now <g>
I remember those days & the *adult* conversations really help :smileyhappy:




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Tue, 08-14-2012 - 12:12am
I hope so! I am pretty young (20) and being my age and having two babies and a husband, I really don't "fit in" with other people my age because they don't have the responsibilities I have. So nothing in common to connect with
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Tue, 08-14-2012 - 12:26am
Am sure you'll find many here that can relate to,m
We're all at different stages & ages here so do check back tomorrow for sure :smileyhappy:




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Tue, 08-14-2012 - 10:31am

Welcome to the board, Cheyenne! It sounds like you have been through a lot lately! Hopefully your mom is willing and able to watch the kids occasionally so you and your DH can get out together alone, even if just to go somewhere quiet and talk.

I'm RoseAnn, 38, married for 16 years to Robert, 42. We live in Denver, CO.

I have a grown stepdaughter who is married with 2 sons.

We also have 2 golden retrievers, one of whom is recovering from surgery 2 weeks ago.

I look forward to getting to know you here! Hang in there. As the kids get older, you'll meet other parents and your age will be irrelevant.

RoseAnn